Musings of a mom who loves her boys and husband but sometimes has to write to be heard.
Monday, June 30, 2008
Found treasures...
So as we were assessing all of my worldly goods remaining in the house to see what my "loss" was I found a few treasures that required saving.
A small wooden heart that used to hang in my grandmothers kitchen that professes "If mom ain't happy ain't nobody happy!"
A Micky Mouse keychain that says William.
My Fist Communion Book, Rosary was in the jewelry that I had not unpacked yet and was found during fire night clean-up.
Will's First Communion cards from just last month.
Nic's blue address book with links to friends in far off states.
Some new scrap stuff that I was so excited to find before we left IA at Archivers. It was still in the bag, did not resonate an odor, and I will use it.
I am sure that Fred found a few things but honestly we were together very little today and when we were together it was not all roses and lollipops. At the end of the day I was raw with emotion and Fred spoke in just the wrong tone, I broke. Within an hour we recovered and went about our life in the new normal.
We enjoyed a hot tasty dinner at the Macaroni Grill then a quick stop at CVS. We have very little on the docket for tomorrow. One afternoon obligation and a hope for a trip to Chuck E. Cheese. I have been promising a trip since the week we moved in. It's time. I am hoping to get a quick trip in to the library and the post office. Oh what I have to look forward to.
The boys spent the day with some of our infamously amazing neighbors. They were tired and worn out by the time I picked them up and should sleep well tonight. They do seem to tense up when we arrive in the hood. Hopefully that is something we can work through. It will be a long summer otherwise.
OK, time to crash, actually should have about an hour ago. 'Night!
Sunday, June 29, 2008
Another day... More smokiness
My dad is almost here. He saw the house before the blaze so I am anxious to see his reaction to the after. I posted a few more pics, none are easier to look at. It's bad.
Tomorrow will be a long day of sorting through rubble and making a list of items that are not salvageable. It is a daunting task but with Fred and me and Dad and the content adjuster we should get through it OK. It will be hot and stinky.
Dad and Fred just arrived. Off to chat I'm sure till way too late. More tomorrow I'm sure. Keep praying, it's not over yet...
Saturday, June 28, 2008
Settling in to the new normal.


So we have moved back to the hotel in Plano and at 10:15 AM both boys are still sleeping. I always looked a little confused with the people who would go to a breakfast bar in a hotel and fill a huge tray of food. I considered the fact that they might be feeding themselves all day. Well this morning I was the one with four drinks, three pieces of fruit, one bowl of rice, two bowls of cereal, one plate with Canadian bacon and some pound cake. Oh and I also had two cartons of milk and some sugar packets. I bet that I was a sight to see.
Fred has already left to go back up to the house. He will spend a little time there, a bit of time at our storage unit and he needs to run to work to shred some documents that are crucial but damp. We will get them replaced. Need to start that list! After he done with all of that he needs to go to Best Buy and pick me up a laptop. Doesn't that sound like he's getting me a gallon of milk? We lost one computer to our move and now two more to a fire. Thankfully Fred grabbed his work laptop and our external hard drive on his way out of the house on Wednesday. A neighbor was gracious enough to hold them for us and we remain connected. AMEN!
Well I recovered a few pictures off of my camera that I would like to share. These are in no way related to the fire, I took them in the few days prior. Check out these kids. Gotta love em!
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Searching for my Veraestau
So when my mother was young her family went through a HORRIFIC tragedy when their house in Lawrenceburg, IN caught on fire, was destroyed, and lives were never the same. This large family was displaced during a tough time but was lucky enough to be friends with the owner of Veraestau. I may not have the details correct but Veraestau was a mansion on a hill, a bluff perhaps, above the Ohio River. It had a LONG entry drive, white rail fence, and Indian burial mound and a lookout/gentleman's room where "business" of the day took place by only those slim enough to fit up the narrow stairway, ie no gals in large skirts. Well, while the house on Ridge Ave. was being rebuilt Veraestau was home and in the future became the site of many family gatherings. Heck it may have only been one year but my memory tells me it was more than one? Feel free to correct me. I can picture in my head two photos from said events... Grandaddy sitting on a chair on the bluff, king of the domain. and a juxtaposition, my younger brother Ben at about 4 running around helping people out by finishing their beers. There is a great picture of him "napping" near a Budweiser. Makes me smile to think about Ben!
I need a Veraestau. I need a house on the hill to hide out in while my world is put back together. The most promising house in the neighborhood requires a 2 year lease, nope, not for me. There are other possibilities. Something will work for us. I have hope.
I have clean underwear and new PJ's and I think I need a shower and a rest. We are moving to a hotel tomorrow for some privacy and down-time. Our surrounding and support have been amazing. Through all of this MY CUP OVERFLOWETH. Amen!
When it rains it pours...
The night was long and emotional to say the least. We were able to get inside sometime around 2 and save what we could. The scrapbooks were totally dry, the scrap room, not so much. The playroom was toast to the nth degree. There is ceiling on my floor, there is water in places that it is not meant to be wet. But... we are safe. We have had amazing outreach and support from neighbors we have not even met. Housing and clothes are not big concern yet... Fred is being strong and methodical and inquisitive. We have never had to call in on a claim for our house. It is a learning experience.
I was in the house this morning with Nic and took some photos. I am using a neighbors Mac. so I have no idea how to upload. it is bad. It is scary. We are safe.
Wednesday, June 25, 2008
I am sad...
Tuesday, June 24, 2008
Is Dr. Pepper good for your skin?

I took a late shower and was hunting for lunch when I remembered that Fred had finished off the last Sunkist in the fridge last night. I should restock right? I head to the garage, grab a Dr. Pepper, drop said Dr. Pepper and proceed to get showered by Dr. Pepper! I was clean for less than 30 minutes and headed directly back to the shower. UGH! Now I will go back out and grab tightly onto a couple of Dr. Peppers and a couple of Sunkist and find myself some lunch.
Leo through and through!

You are a very creative person, so why not create something today? You don't have to paint a painting or create a typical type of artwork -- baking cookies, putting together a new outfit, or even making a mixed CD are all great ways to express yourself in a unique way. Create something for someone you care about and give them your creation as a gift -- they'll appreciate the extra effort and thoughtfulness, and they'll love showing you their gratitude.
I think that my horoscope is a message. I should be making some cards today! I am off to shower and see how that goes.
The good news is that I did put away the last box from the Living Room and worked on the kitchen and dining room. We even made it to the pool yesterday and I made a very yummy dinner and "homemade" dessert. I'll post about that later!
Happy Tuesday!
Monday, June 23, 2008
Yeah Kittle's!
We also had some luck getting a great desk for Fred yesterday at THE DUMP. This place is pretty cool and had decent prices. They are only open F, S & S and they move through about 65% of their showroom floor each weekend. You can not special order, you are often buying "off the floor" but in some things they have a small stock. We were lucky enough to find a massive desk that was one of three left in the store so it was all wrapped and boxed for us to drive it home. If I had know what the desk weighed... I might have paid the $139 delivery fee. This thing is like a small elephant. We knew it could be disassembled to a degree but even the parts were heavy. Fred spent some quality time trying to set it all up and get the drawers filled with his junk and files. It is not sitting in it's long term position in the room but we can not move it until we find a home for some more boxes in there. We'll get there. Hopefully sooner than later.
OK, I am working on reducing piles and being able to see all of the granite in the kitchen. So far the island is clear so that is definite progress. Off to get myself packed up for a few errands...
Sunday, June 22, 2008
Oh what a night... Sorry about the photo placement, blogger is being difficult, or maybe it's just me?


So we didn't make it to the CTK festival but we had a great Saturday night none the less. We were invited to our neighbor's for a little party on the driveway. Well the invite said there would be a BIG surprise and it was BIG! They had a jumbo blow-up screen in their front yard and were projecting the Wii onto it for kids young and old to play. It was great once it got dark enough. They also pulled out their ping pong table too. We got to meet some neighbors, all of whom seem really nice. We heard some stories about the hood, some good, some... not so much. Lots of bragging about the school and the amazing sports program and what a great place Frisco is to raise a family. We feel very content. Fred is so content he is still over there! Fred, stayed at a party longer than me! Go figure. He is in his element with the neighbors. Talking a little business, threatening to get involved in a "friendly" poker game, one of the neighbors even offered to take us out for a steak dinner! My kinda neighbor!
Well, last night ended way to early for me. I retreated to my bed at 9:00 with my first Texas Migraine. It was a doozy! I brought it on myself because I got really stressed about a HUGE mistake I made yesterday.
When I got the mail just before 5 I was tearing into it and found a bill for our State Farm auto insurance. I thought to myself... I should call and cancel that so I don't have to pay this bill. I caught our agent's assistant in the office at 4:58 and told her to cancel the policy effective today. OOPS! Fred knew that our policy expired on the 23rd of the month so instead of being owed a refund he thought to just let the policy run out and start the new policy on the 23rd. Yep, when I checked the policy info that I received last week our policy date was effective June23. Well, that means that I just put myself, my husband and our leased vehicles in MAJOR jeopardy because I cancelled the insurance a couple days too soon.
YIKES! I tried to call State Farm, they of course were gone but I was forwarded to the 24 hour service center. I was too impatient so I decided to see if Liberty Mutual could change our start date from Mon. to Fri.? Worth a try right? Well, they couldn't do it. They would have to cancel the new policy and write an even newer one and it took and agent and they were just the help desk. Not authorized to write a new policy on Friday at 5:30. Back on the phone to State Farm. "Lucy" was not so helpful and pretty much said I was screwed. Well, with my hubby breathing down my neck and throwing cable ties I told Lucy that I could not accept that and needed to talk to someone who might have a better idea. She patched me through to Liz who had a great idea. Let's call the agent at home and see if she can help. Well, I had already looked up the agent's home number in the M-town phone book and was almost ready to do the same thing. 5 minutes later Phyllis, my agent, called and said we were good to go and I could tell Fred I was allowed to drive anywhere I wanted. THANK YOU GOD! AND PHYLLIS! I am so sending her a thank you note on Monday! Fred chalks in up to small town Iowa and for that I am grateful.
Well, I don't think I ever settled down from that so it was a rough night and the migraine won this round. I recall waking around 10:30 with an acheness to my body but not my head. I think I get so stressed at times that I get tense and it is hard to release that so it sticks with me even after the headache has passed. I so hope that my kids don't suffer with migraines. They suck!
Ok, we had a good day today. While I collapsed last night Fred built my Ikea Expedite shelving unit for me. It is a white 5X5 cube grid thing that holds TONS of children's books and scrap crap. It looks really great in my space and I only wish it had a little more breathing room. It looks too stuffed. I need to purge some books and magazines then I will be set.
Tomorrow we are on a quest for office furniture for Fred. He has done an AMAZING job of clearing out boxes from his office. The room was packed to the gills two days ago. I think he is anxious to have a workspace to call his own and I can not blame him. He has done without since we left Michigan and this office is so great and it even has doors. He always wanted doors.
Fred is still down the street and the boys are hopefully asleep, guess Pete and I will turn in. Before we find the perfect office suite I need to get to church, we need to drop a broken CPU off at Best Buy and we have to find a Game Stop so that the boys can download a free Pokemon dealio tomorrow. I had better get some rest!
Thursday, June 19, 2008
Gratitude...
1. We made it here to TX safe and sound.
2. Fred continues to be employed and works hard for us and Lennox.
3. The boys haven't killed each other yet this summer. We have had tense moments but nothing a little time apart doesn't help.
4. We are finding our way around Frisco. Tried some very tasty pizza at Brooklyn's last night and ran to Kroger for more stuff to stock the fridge.
5. I am in love... with the Frisco Library. I did not realize how much I had missed the library. I really missed it and am now thrilled to read and read and read some more!
6. There will always be laundry thus I will always be needed in the Baker house. It is job security at its finest. Off to sort and wash!
Wednesday, June 18, 2008
You Are Jasmine!

Independent and adventurous. You don't want much; just to break out of the guilded cage society has put you in and experience life to the fullest. Following orders isn't really one of your strong points, and you would rather live a life of poverty than being forced into something that you hate.
Which Disney Princess Are You?
Tuesday, June 17, 2008
DO NOT CALL!

Monday, June 16, 2008
It's a good day when...
You get to talk to a gal pal from MI on your home phone that includes unlimited long distance.
You can call your dad in the middle of the day on the same phone with a random bit of news and can afford to leave a message since he's not there.
You make breakfast, lunch and dinner for your family with food from your own cabinets. No take out or drive through today people. No gourmet meals either, but they were prepared with LOVE!
You meet two more neighbors and one of them is named Susan and she scrapbooks!
Your older son tries to console the younger one who says he's been having nightmares since we moved in. Nic is even sleeping on the floor in Will's room to provide support.
You figure out a few more of the mystery light switches. I knew we had up-lights on our house but could not figure out where the switch is. FYI, it is in the Dining Room. Why didn't I think to look there first?
You take time to read 4 chapters in a book that has been in cue for way too long. I am never going to earn a prize in the Frisco Library Adult Summer Reading Program if I don't step it up!
Your dog eats breakfast and dinner and is regular enough that you need to poop scoop the back yard. And said backyard it small so it takes like 4 minutes.
It is just after 10 and you can go to bed.
Sunday, June 15, 2008
Some obeservations at the close of week 1

Saturday, June 14, 2008
We're done.. all unpacked!
my Kroger Savings Club Card and bought a $300 gift card on my way in. They have a deal that if you buy a $300 card you get an extra $30 on the card. Since I know I will be using it I bit the bullet and paid up. I managed to get through $220 of it today. We are more stocked but I still forgot stuff. I bought some yummy looking green beans to make with the Garlic Lime Chicken that I planned to make for Father's Day. Too bad I forgot the lime juice. I did not forget the chicken. I bought some ice cream treats and lots of condiments and had many comments on my large order. I was quick to explain... stocking the fridge takes LOTS of stuff.Friday, June 13, 2008
I'm connected!
OK, dad is taking us out for a sit down meal in celebration of our new digs. We have eaten out plenty this week but never at a place that included waitstaff. I am looking forward to a hot meal and a cool glass of lemonade in a real glass glass.
OK, I will do my darnedest to get a photo out soon of some great bit of progress we have made in turning this house into our home. Stay tuned...
Wednesday, June 11, 2008
The final "transition" blog post!

Tuesday, June 10, 2008
It was a LONG day... I'm tired!

Monday, June 9, 2008
Bummer in the summer dude.

Sunday, June 8, 2008
2 in one day!
Fred and the boys did go to the new Indiana Jones movie this afternoon. First we checked out the storage locker... oohh, aahh and the like. Then we went up by the new house and then we parted ways. I was on a trek to find my way around a bit and with the help of Jack I made it back to the hotel. My first stop was to a scrapbook store in McKinney. After that I went by a doggy daycare option that included the use of a pool. (My dog so does not need this amenity.) After that I went back past my new house and happened to find that the Catholic church/Cathedral is a little less than 5 miles from my hood. All good.
On our way back to the hotel Pete and I stopped in a PetsMart just 3 miles from the new house and found that they too offer dog day camp. We picked up a water bowl that will be left in the car for hot days, like today, and a Greenie bone. Yum! They also have an engraving machine there so we will head back to up-date his tag some time real soon!
Finally we headed south and I ran through Steak N Shake for a burger and went past McDonald's for a newspaper and we are now settled at the hotel waiting on the guys. I am happy to report that I have found out the there is an adult Summer Reading Program at the Frisco Library and an on-line book club that looks intriguing. No babysitter required:)
OK, I am now ready to start looking up those oh so important numbers so that I can get busy on the phone tomorrow. I think the boys and I may go the Frisco and get Toll Tags and Library cards first then head back to take Fred to the Airport. When we get back I can make calls while the boys and I kill time before it is time to pick-up Grandpa at the airport. Will the fun ever end? Stay tuned!
Touchdown!

We made it! The Eagle has landed! We're HERE!
Can you tell how excited I am? We have settled into our home away from home and were able to sleep in a little late today. Pete needed some attention around 8:30 but that was easy enough to handle. Last night I tackled 4 loads of laundry in the FREE laundry facilities here at Staybridge Suites! We ordered Papa John's pizza for dinner and had it DELIVERED! Fred went up to our short term storage unit to drop some stuff that we had brought with us in our cars. We hooked up our home PC here so I don't go through withdrawal before Thursday. Life is good!
Not sure what today holds. I have recovered from my angst over driving and am looking forward to getting out and about a bit today. I want to try out my Garmin and see if "Jack" can help me get from point A to point B easily. He worked on the way down from IA but I am anxious to try him in the much more dense "Big City."
I am encouraging Fred to take the boys off my hands for a bit today, since I will be primary care-giver for the week, and even offered up daddy friendly suggestions of things to do. We'll see how that all goes down. I am keeping my fingers crossed. If I can separate from the group Jack, Pete and I can explore and I can work on my "Move Notification List." It is a rather lengthy list of people who need to be notified of our new address. I did not want to contact them too soon because I didn't want my mail showing up at the new house before I even own it. I think that if I fill in all of the phone numbers today I can make a serious dent in the call list tomorrow. Here's to hoping!
Saturday, June 7, 2008
On the road again...
We have a short drive today, just 3 hours I think. We will get to the hotel before dinner and have time to run some of our overflow up to our storage unit today. Tomorrow we may not leave the hotel. Just the thought of not driving is appealing to me. That is crazy coming from me. I LOVE to drive! I guess the twitching leg as soon as we stopped last night was my sign.
The boys and Fred went down for breakfast so I am going to take a nice long shower. Here's hoping for a great short day!
Thursday, June 5, 2008
And we breathe...
I am beat and am looking to be awakened again tonight. The good news is that we are on the ground floor so our safe spot is in our luxurious bathroom. Can you ask for better than that? I think not!
Oh what a night!!!
So my final night in State Center was spent on the floor in our basement. Fred stayed up longer than me. What's new? And woke me a little before 2 AM to tell me that tornadoes had been sighted not far from us and did we want to go downstairs. Hell yeah! I grabbed shoes and important bags and took one trip down. then Fred and I roused the boys and threw their mattresses downstairs. We all settled in and then Fred checked the radar on his laptop one more time. the storm had passed. AMEN!Wednesday, June 4, 2008
Today's sounds of progress
Let's just add insult to injury of the day that I believe that the movers pack Bob the Monkey, Nic's nightly friend since the precious age of 6 months, when we bought him on clearance at the This End Up store in Knoxville. The only solace to Nic is that if Bob cannot be found in the house he MUST be in a box. It will be a scavenger hunt at the other end, that may prove helpful in getting his room unpacked, to find Bob and hear about his great adventures inside a box for 7 days.
Will has suffered no such loss but has been dealing with belly pain and anxiety most of the evening. I literally sat on the floor in the 1/2 bath for more than 30 minutes coaching him through an excruciating expulsion. It was exhausting for us both. The good news is that it was fruitful, not fruity scented of course, and he will sleep better tonight.
Fred is on a quest to organize what little is left, bless his heart, he can not control it. He just NEEDS order. Don't we wish everyone did. The scary thing is that as he makes order appear from chaos he is whistling.
Let's wrap this up on a VERY happy note! I BIG thank you goes out to Vicki and Andrea, my co-workers and more importantly FRIENDS who helped me with the boys yesterday and today. The thought of the boys sitting here and watching this happen bit by bit is so unappealing. The chaos that is moving is hard to sit back and watch even for me.
OK worker bee is making me feel way lazy. Gotta go help and hopefully get to bed before midnight. I can not take much more of this. We are so getting a late check-out for Friday morning! He can leave early but I am SLEEPING!
Tuesday, June 3, 2008
I am going to sleep well tonight!

The sounds of progress...

The day is here!
Fred and I got busy last night working in the garage. We emptied the small engine items of gas etc. We hosed down the lawn tractor, we loaded my can with more stuff to donate and finished up the freezer defrost.
I crashed at 11:45 with a TERRIBLE migraine, not that any migraine is not terrible, I felt as if I might get pukey so I felt it best to sleep. Fred on the other hand did some other stuff around the house, including packing for himself, and some work related stuff and best I can tell he came to bed at 4:30 AM. Not sure how he can be standing upright this morning but he is and for that I am thankful.
OK, off to move around some more boxes and determine what fridge and freezer stuff I am giving to Vicki today. The boys are going over there this afternoon to play and get away from the chaos. I only wish they could take Pete with them. He is going a little crazy because we have the suitcases out and he thinks we are going somewhere exciting today. He may whine for the next 48 hours. Yikes! Better find some earplugs.
Monday, June 2, 2008
Yes, I've been busy
Talked to Josh re. pre-funding. All $ should be there 24hrs. before close.
e-mailed with Morgan re. prefunding. It is all good.
Talked to Jennifer
Packed for myself for 7 days
Packed for Will for 7 days
Packed for Nic for 7 days
Washed the mutt
Found more fluids
Removed a couple of things from the walls upstairs
Called Kay and left a message about home warranty info
Fed myself and the boys lunch
Defrosted steak for dinner
Backed up to CD all photos from 2007 and 2008 from upstairs computer
Showered
Cleaned the shower
Talked to dad re. ring to Hoffmeisters.
Defrosted the outside freezer.
Watched one episode of Oprah
Baked and Angel Food cake to utilize some Cool Whip from defrosted freezer.
Good Morning...

